Memoir



                               

one thousand giftsYou can’t be a Christian mom blogger or anyone who is familiar with any Christian mom bloggers online, and not know of Ann Voskamp. Or maybe you aren’t familiar with her online, but you’ve certainly heard someone sing praises — or maybe express reservations — about her book One Thousand Gifts: A Dare to Live Fully Right Where You Are.

I was sent an email last week asking if I wanted to do a last minute Mother’s Day review and/or giveaway of the book, and I knew I wanted to. I bought the book on my Kindle a while ago, but had never gotten around to reading it, so I decided that I’d try to get through some of it, so I could do some sort of review as well.

Well.

I’m glad I finally got around to reading it.  I am halfway through it and loving it.  I love her poetic style of writing most of all and a close second to that is her total honesty with herself and her God.  She’s had reasons to doubt His goodness, she knows people who have reasons to doubt His goodness, and yet she clings to Him and even seeks to know and understand Him more fully.  For her, that fullness means digging deep and exploring any areas where she might not be fully committed or fully trusting of God and His plan.

This brings mixed feelings to someone like me, someone who does not doubt and just accepts things at face value. I understand that I have the gift of faith. I easily can look to God’s sovereignty and trust that He will use my circumstances for my ultimate good, even if — and honestly, especially when — there is pain and/or suffering involved. But that seems so pat and easy. Does that mean I’m not as deep as others who want to really understand, to really prove, and really be sure that they are embracing everything at their core? I sometimes wish I had the faith to doubt or question or explore, and so reading the honest sojourn of another believer helps me see that or experience it in a second-hand way.

As soon as I started reading it, I wanted to buy a copy for a friend of mine. She’s a big reader, so I didn’t buy the book, but printed out a pretty picture of it and said, “I want to give this to you for your birthday if you don’t already have it.” She did have it, but like me, hadn’t read it yet, so I told her I had another book in mind and encouraged her to read her copy.

So, with Mother’s Day around the corner, you may think of those who have helped you to be the kind of mother you are. Perhaps it’s a good friend or your own mother or other relative. Giving someone a book like this — a book by a mother and with the joys and pains of motherhood at the very root of the story — will be a way to help her go deeper in her own mothering experience, or to thank her for what she’s meant to you.  Or during this special month, you can choose to give it to yourself.

This giveaway of One Thousand Gifts is open to U.S. and Canadian residents. Please leave a comment telling me what you liked about the book if you have read it, and who you would want to gift a copy to. If you haven’t read it, tell me you’d like to! The winner will be announced on May 22.

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Honey Do You Need a Ride? Confessions of a Fat Runner {with Giveaway}

honey do you need a rideHoney, Do You Need a Ride? Confessions of a Fat Runner is the story of Jennifer Graham’s 25-year pursuit of running. I accepted the book for review because I had hoped it would live up to the PR pitch:

Like any memoir worth its salt, it’s about more than it appears to be. Yes, it’s about running, but it’s also about a woman dealing with a tough divorce and finding herself suddenly a single mom.

I would say that Confessions of a Fat Runner is definitely a memoir worth its salt. The things that exceeded my expectations were numerous:

  • The humor — I laughed out loud several times — many — enough that I’ve included it in the “humor” category.
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Have Mother, Will Travel {Review and Giveaway}

hmwt pbIn Have Mother, Will Travel, mother-daughter duo Claire and Mia Fontaine travel the world, first as part of a Global Scavenger hunt, then by spending the summer together in the south of France. Although it describes their travels, the gist of the book is more about Claire and Mia examining themselves, their relationship to each other as adult daughter and mother, and even in part Claire’s relationship with her own mother, a Hungarian Holocaust survivor who is closer to her grand-daughter than her daughter.

The first half of the book concerns their time with the Global Scavenger Hunt, which is a wild ride through Beijing, Kuala Lumpur, Cairo, Nepal, and the Balkans.

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Lost In Suburbia {Review and Giveaway}

Lost in SuburbiaI’ve read the humor column of Lost in Suburbia: How I Got Pregnant, Lost Myself, and Got My Cool Back in the New Jersey Suburbs author Tracy Beckerman for a long time.  She’s a hoot to read and a hoot to talk to in person.  The (extended) title of the book pretty much sums up the content, and it’s told in quick bites with vivid pictures that frequently made me giggle while reading.

I adore the prologue, in which Tracy is pulled over for making an illegal left turn out of the school with her three year old in the back… while wearing her ducky bathrobe.

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Jeremy Camp book and CD

istillbelieveI think most people who are familiar with Jeremy Camp’s music are also familiar with his story. I remember when “I Still Believe” (the song) and “Walk by Faith” came out and radio announcers told the story about him getting married as a young man and losing his wife to cancer within months. I saw him in concert, around 2005 I think, and he shared how it was so much a part of his testimony about God moving in his life.

In the book I Still Believe, Camp shares his whole story with the reader. Anyone who likes to hear people’s stories about their faith journeys will enjoy hearing about Camp’s life, from his parents’ salvation, to his own periods of being hot and cold in high school, to his early years leading worship, and then the commercial success that came so quickly.

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Bloom: Finding Beauty in the Unexpected {Review and Giveaway}

bloomKelle Hampton began chronicling her life as a mom on her blog Enjoying the Small Things in 2007 when her first child was still a baby. Little did she know that she’d taken the first steps toward building a massive online community for herself in years to come. When her second daughter was born in 2010, her life changed in a way that she didn’t see coming. Her daughter Nella was diagnosed with Down syndrome, and she found herself writing about her parenting experiences with honesty and emotion.

Bloom: Finding Beauty in the Unexpected is her account of Nella’s first year, pulling together some of that writing from her blog into a memoir filled with her gorgeous photography and a whole lot of love.

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The Duck Commander Family

duckcommanderMy family and I were sort of late to the whole Duck Dynasty party. I remember seeing a commercial or two, and I thought that it was one of those shows where they exploited the “dumb hillbillies,” making them the subject of ridicule.

But then I watched it and realized that they were totally in on the joke. And that it wasn’t even really a joke. The Robertson clan are fun-loving, unfiltered people, and that’s what we see. There aren’t many shows that my whole family — from my husband to my teen daughter to my school-aged son to me — enjoy watching together equally well, but this is one of them.

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Sparkly Green Earrings {Review & Giveaway}

Sparkly Green Earrings is a memoir of a segment of Melanie Shankle’s life, from the time she and her husband Perry began to consider having a child to now, when Caroline is 8 years old and in elementary school and Melanie is in the throes of clothing debates, summertime road trips, and deciding when to get ears pierced. It’s an account of a difficult and complicated miscarriage, of toilet-training a toddler who has to be trained in order to advance at preschool, of the heartbreak of sending her off to kindergarten, of the joys of watching her daughter develop her own personality and way of looking at things.

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Saturday Night Widows

I generally don’t read many memoirs, but the title of Saturday Night Widows: The Adventures of Six Friends Remaking Their Lives drew me in.  Written by Becky Aikman, the book tells of the very unscientific experiment Becky undertook in forming a nontraditional support group for widows.  The preface truly drew me in, as Becky attends a traditional support group eighteen months after her husband Bernie has died.  An epic disaster, Becky is essentially kicked out of the group for being too young compared to the other widows (and one widower) in the group and for challenging the idea that they are there to wallow in a pity-fest.

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This is How I Save My Life

Amy Beth Scher was a normally active young adult until she came down with a mysterious condition that left her looking normal on the outside but dealing with intense pain, no longer able to walk, with neurological issues, brain lesions, and more. She was eventually diagnosed with chronic Lyme disease but it had never manifested with a rash or bite mark. She tried treatment after treatment, taking drawerfuls of pills every day in addition to many intravenous and intramuscular shots and intense antibiotic regimes, and nothing worked. She heard of a treatment with embryonic stem cells in Delhi, India, and decided to look into it.

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An Extraordinary Theory of Objects: a Memoir of an Outsider in Paris

When author Stephanie Lacava was 12, her family moved to the Parisian suburb of Le Vésinet. She already felt like an outsider and this move simply confirmed it, guaranteeing that she would never again be simply “American” or “French” or any other single nationality, emotionally if not legally. On top of that, the move coincides with a descent into mental illness, a bone-deep depression that will haunt Lacava for the rest of her life.

Lacava was the sort of child who places great importance on objects, even before the move–tangible things she could hold in her hands and arrange on a shelf, and the intangible but nonetheless solidity of stories, mythologies that explained the world to her.

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You Tell Your Dog First

I enjoyed Alison Pace’s novel A Pug’s Tale (linked to my review) a couple of years ago, and so when I was offered You Tell Your Dog First, a book of essays about a dog and her owner, I jumped at it. The promise of tales of a dog in the city (The City, NYC) and a single woman in The City gave me no pause.

I was delighted. These essays were humorous. Some essays were introspective and reflective, others (most) were humorous. Several of them had me laughing out loud while reading in bed, which always causes me to get weird looks from my husband.

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