The Sweetness of Forgetting {Review and Giveaway}

by Jennifer


I have a young teen daughter. I am the primary caretaker for my grandmother, who has dementia. I recently lost my mother. These are three major themes in The Sweetness of Forgetting which made it resonate so strongly with me. Reading a novel that contains hard and serious issues in your current circumstances is sometimes no picnic. But Kristin Harmel somehow made it seem as if a friend who is experiencing what I am is just conversing with me — not heavy, not depressing, not preachy, just a chat (read more about these similarities at my blog in “Art is Imitating my Life“).

And if you don’t have a teen daughter, you certainly were once a teen daughter (assuming you’re a woman). If you’ve never quit law school to support your husband, as protagonist Hope McKenna-Smith did, to support her husband whom she’s recently divorced, and then moves back to her hometown to run her family’s bakery, you’ve likely had some sort of career or personal identity confusion, be it a major change in college or the transition from working woman to stay-at-home mom.

I haven’t read any of Kristin Harmel’s novels, so I don’t know if she seeks to connect with her reader, but that’s the way I read this novel.

BUT aside from all that, this novel is a wonderful suspenseful romance that spans a generation. As her grandmother’s memory and health declines, she begins calling Hope’s daughter Annie “Lenore.” No one knows who Lenore is, and Rose isn’t saying. On a rare crystal-clear day, Mamie gives Hope a list of her family members, and tells her to go to France to find them. Hope doesn’t know anything about her grandmother’s life at this time, only that she met her husband in Europe during the war, and came to America with him at that time.

The second half of the novel is full of family secrets revealed, first love and lasting love, in wonderful settings, and I couldn’t turn the pages quickly enough to finish.

I am so happy to offer up a copy of The Sweetness of Forgetting to one of you. Please leave a comment if you are interested (U.S. residents only). We’ll announce the winner in our giveaway column on October 17.

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Jennifer lives in Houston with her family. In addition to reading, she enjoys travel, Bible study, food, and fun. She blogs about some of these things -- when her nose isn't in a book -- at Snapshot.

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{ 28 comments… read them below or add one }

1 Kristin Jones October 6, 2012 at 9:25 am

I would love to read this one!!
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2 ellie October 6, 2012 at 12:26 pm

A wonderful novel which sounds fabulous and memorable. Many thanks.


3 anne October 6, 2012 at 1:09 pm

I would enjoy and savor this novel which is a treasure to remember. Thanks.


4 Colleen Turner October 6, 2012 at 3:17 pm

This sounds like such a poignant, heartfelt book. I would love to read it!


5 Carol Wong October 6, 2012 at 3:19 pm

I would love to read about this! When I was a teenager about 14 or so, my grandmother who had dementia came to live with us. I gave up my bedroom for her and slept in the kitchen. She got lost in my bedroom closet. And she got very mad at my brother for not eating his peas. I thought that she thought my brother was one of her sons.

Carol Wong


6 Carol M October 6, 2012 at 3:28 pm

I’m also the primary caregiver for my mom who is in the early stages of dementia and I will also soon be taking care of my new baby grandson when my d-i-l goes back to work. I would very much like to read this book


7 Beth C October 6, 2012 at 3:38 pm

This sounds like a wonderful book. I can relate to a lot of it and would love to read it!


8 Amy B October 6, 2012 at 5:28 pm

Sounds like a great read! Hope you pick me!


9 Jennifer October 16, 2012 at 8:19 pm

I did pick you, Amy! Please reply to this email with your shipping info.
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10 Jilleen Hays October 6, 2012 at 9:22 pm

I have been wanting to read this book and haven’t purchased it yet. Thanks for the great giveaway.

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11 debbie October 7, 2012 at 7:52 am

This sounds like a very good book.


12 diane October 7, 2012 at 12:40 pm

A captivating story which is unique. Thanks.


13 Sandra K321 October 7, 2012 at 1:32 pm

Situations that many of us have to deal with. I would love to read this. Thanks.


14 Cindi October 7, 2012 at 1:40 pm

I adore reading books that center around
a family’s life…
Many thanks to you!


15 Stephanie October 8, 2012 at 12:37 am

Sounds like a great story! Thanks for the giveaway.
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16 Staci A October 8, 2012 at 1:46 pm

This looks like an intriguing story. While, I’m not the primary caregiver for an older relative, I do help out quite often. I’d love to read this!


17 Katie October 8, 2012 at 2:30 pm

Sounds wonderful! looking forward to reading it!


18 Jessica T October 9, 2012 at 12:01 am

This sounds great! Count me in!


19 Linda Kish October 9, 2012 at 12:04 am

I would love to win a copy of this book.

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20 Barb: 1SentenceDiary October 9, 2012 at 4:55 pm

That sounds like a womderfully sweet book. :-)


21 riTa October 9, 2012 at 9:58 pm

Wow! Not many novels, it seems, that deal with those life realities we face in the sandwich generation. I especially like the positive twist in the title, i.e. dementia’s silver lining.
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22 Alison S. October 11, 2012 at 12:30 pm

Looks like an interesting book. I would love to win it. :)


23 Wendy M October 13, 2012 at 11:18 am

This sounds like a wonderful book! The story line is so intriguing, and with a Grandmother suffering from dementia it strikes close to home.


24 Anita Yancey October 13, 2012 at 7:53 pm

It sounds like a very touching book. I would love to read it. Thanks for having the giveaway.


25 Lori D. October 15, 2012 at 6:21 pm

Would like to win & read this book.


26 Angela E. October 15, 2012 at 6:23 pm

This book sounds so good to me.


27 June October 16, 2012 at 10:47 pm

What a great story line.


28 Don October 16, 2012 at 10:51 pm

My wife want’s to read this one!


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